Older Ladies Please help, need your thoughts. Please?

First of all main thing is that nobody cant understand woman so what they want its truth. Other thing if u want o spend time with her go ahead but dnt marry with her according to me there "BIG DIFFERENCE" betweew boyfrnd grlfrnd and husband or wife. If she leaves u after marriage it really hurts u if she cheat or leaves u before marriage it nt so hurt.