Older Ladies/mother's PLEASE I NEED HELP, I don't know what to do, please?

she has a lot of emotional baggage. this fight is on her. she needs to understand that she unfairly compared you to people she's dated in the past, and you can't win with that. you have to be honest with yourself in terms of what you expect in a mate. her behavior is causing you strife, and your willingness to endure that will determine your commitment to her. she said she needed time. I'm giving her the benefit of the doubt when I say that she will call you when she's ready to talk. she is overreacting. your 7 months together should absolutely defend your reasoning. she probably thinks you are being insensitive with your actions, given your knowledge of her past relationships. bottom line: she needs to get over it. you're not them.