Please ladies, I need your help. Older ladies preferred, please? I am lost?

Both of you are confusing. When you saw the test in the trash why didn't you ask about it then? It's not a secret, she is worried, why wouldn't she be? Whats the big deal? You didn't confront her which made it look secretive. If you both are not open with one another, you have nothing! Communication is the number one reason marriages make it! Stay open and honest with you.