Please someone answer? (prefer a mother/single mothers insight for I feel that would be best)?

I realize that you love this lady but I think you both need time out. She definately has some major trust issues and she needs to sort herself out, maybe talk to someone about it, eg counsellor, therapist. Not all guys cheat and once she realizes that you are not like those guys then she will treat you better and wont be so angry. The best relationships are built on Honesty. You both need to sit down quietly and calmly with one another and have a good talk and find out how you both feel and where this relationship is going, cause from where Im sitting, not very far.