Older ladies/mothers Please I need YOUR perspective the most. Please help need answers?

I am not an "older" woman, but I will say your story was interesting to me. I can't sa I have really ever been in a sililiar problem, but I can say that women, like men, often need space. I'd say let her be for a few days. If she calls answer but don't get emotional. Just keep to casual conversation. If she doesn't come around and try talking about everything after two weeks, bring it up. If it doesn't go well, I'd say you're out of luck.